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Dave Says: It’s a Credit Card Addiction

December 15, 2023 By Dave Ramsey Leave a Comment

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Dear Dave,

I think my mother-in-law has a serious credit card problem. She can’t afford stuff, but she shops anyway, chalks up more and more debt, acquires more credit cards, and thinks she’ll pay for it all later somehow. Her ex-husband has bailed her out a few times, but he’s unwilling to help anymore. My wife and I, and my wife’s sister, want to address this issue, but we’re all worried about her reaction, and we don’t know where to start. Do you have any advice?

Randall

Dear Randall,

First, everyone involved should understand they’re likely to receive an angry response from this lady if she’s confronted over her actions. Sometimes people get ticked off when they hear the truth, especially when it’s connected to their own misbehavior. It may even be a good idea for your wife and her sister to get some advice from a family counselor beforehand. Really, what we’re talking about here is an intervention.

Also, you need to stay out of the discussion. This is something for her daughters to handle. Support your wife and her sister through it all, but if you’re in there asking questions and probing around, you’re liable to come off as the evil son-in-law. And you folks don’t need to add any more problems to the mix.

They need to sit down with her in a quiet setting, one where there are no interruptions, no television and no one else. Start with the fact that they love her and care about her deeply. That’s very important in a situation like this. But they also have to walk through what’s really going on, and let her know they’re tired of watching her destroy herself, and her finances, with her irresponsible behavior.

If she had a drinking problem, you’d want to try to make her see how alcohol was hurting her and the relationships she has with her family. In this case, she basically has a credit card addiction. And it’s wreaking havoc on her financial well-being and people who care about her.

So, show as much love and understanding as possible. But someone needs to say something soon.

— Dave

* Dave Ramsey is an eight-time national bestselling author, personal finance expert and host of The Ramsey Show. He has appeared on Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, Today, Fox News, CNN, Fox Business and many more. Since 1992, Dave has helped people take control of their money, build wealth and enhance their lives. He also serves as CEO for Ramsey Solutions.

Filed Under: Dave Ramsey Tagged With: credit card, Credit Card Addiction, dave ramsey, dave ramsey tips, dear dave

How to Save on Your Family’s Medical Expenses While in Debt

December 4, 2023 By Erin H Leave a Comment

Debt can be crippling at times, affecting things like your quality of life and even your ability to access the services that you need. One of these services is health care, which can be a necessary evil, especially for people with families. This is because healthcare costs are generally quite high, calling for measures to help make them more manageable whenever possible. It’s clear to see how much more urgent it could be to do this if you happen to be in debt. Here are a few ways in which you can save on your family’s medical expenses while you’re in debt so that you make the best use of your money.

Practice Prevention

Prevention is said to be better than cure, and this is even more true in this case. By working to prevent health issues from coming up in the first place, you can save a considerable amount of money. That said, there are several things that you can do to safeguard your health as a family, including going for screenings, regular exams, and vaccinations. Don’t forget that your oral health is also a part of your overall health, and in this case, you should maintain proper oral hygiene routines. One of these is knowing that if you use mouth rinses and fluoride toothpaste alongside regular brushing and flossing, you can lower tooth decay by as much as an impressive 40%.

Make the Best of Health Insurance

Another way in which you can save money on your family’s medical expenses is by making the best use of your insurance coverage. One way to do this is to only use health care professionals in your insurance provider’s network. This is generally going to cost you significantly less money than going to medical facilities that aren’t part of your insurance provider’s network. You can make use of it during screenings and tests meant to help you prevent health issues from coming up. On this note, it’s highly recommended for everyone, no matter their age, to have a physical exam done once every single year.

Learn to Negotiate

You should know that you can negotiate for better prices for treatment or other health care costs that you need. To have the best chance of being granted a discount, you could pay in cash. In this case, you’re going to benefit even more if you have a health savings account for your family where you can withdraw the money you need for treatment. As a result of this, you can avoid digging yourself even deeper into debt, something that may not even be an option if you’ve filed for bankruptcy in some cases. In this case, you may already know that Chapter 13 bankruptcy is sometimes called the wage-earner’s plan. It’s designed for people with a regular income and who would like to repay their debt, but need assistance in doing this.

Compare Different Health Care Providers

Last but not least, make comparisons between different healthcare providers and centers since each sets prices for its services independently. While doing this, make sure that you only compare between the most reputable names in health care. Seeking medical advice and assistance from someone without proper qualifications is a terrible thing to do. This is because they could worsen the condition and leave you with much higher costs than you may have initially had to pay.

By taking these steps and additional ones like making use of generic drugs instead of their original versions whenever you get a prescription, you can make savings while safeguarding your family’s health. Make plans for the future so that you can get access to the best health care possible in your situation while working on clearing your debt. This way, better financial times for you and your family may be ahead.

Filed Under: Debt Reduction, General Finance

What To Do When Your Child Asks for a Present You Can’t Afford

November 13, 2023 By MelissaB Leave a Comment

White present trimmed with red ribbon.

Most parents will experience the uncomfortable moment when their child asks for a gift the parent can’t afford. This item may also be the one your child is most passionate about and feels he must have. In our case, my daughter, who was a huge Lego fan when she was younger, wanted a $300 Lego set. You may hate to say no to your child, but if they’re requesting a present you can’t afford, that’s what you most likely must do.

How to Prevent This Situation

I always like to be proactive, so from the time my children were little, they knew our gift-giving budget for their Christmas presents. Rather than being a damper on their holiday joy, my kids were able to work creatively around the amount. This had two benefits:

First, they didn’t ask for gifts beyond the budget because they knew we couldn’t buy them.

Second, my kids learned to look for deals. For instance, my 13-year-old daughter wants several items from Bath and Body Works, so she already gave me her Christmas list and told me that Bath and Body Works is currently having a sale, so that I can buy her more within the budget.

What to Do When Your Child Asks for a Present You Can’t Afford

If you can’t afford the item, you have several choices so your child can eventually get it.

Ask Grandparents to Chip In

If your child’s grandparents, aunts, and uncles typically buy her a present, you can ask them to all chip in with you to buy the expensive gift she wants.

If the gift is still too expensive or others who buy her gifts don’t want to chip in, you have other options.

Give Him Additional Chores to Do

You can explain that he would value the item more if he saved for it himself. To help him with that, you can give him additional chores around the house so he can make money more quickly than saving his weekly allowance.

Match Your Child’s Savings

As she earns extra money for chores, you can offer to match her savings rate. If she saves $100, you contribute $100. Especially if your child is younger, matching savings is a great way to keep her motivated; otherwise, saving for an item that is several hundred dollars may seem impossible to attain.

Final Thoughts

Some parents feel they should give their children the gifts they ask for, even if they’re expensive and require the parent to get a second job to give their children an unbelievable Christmas. However, my husband and I believe in setting a budget that the kids are aware of so they know not to expect too much. If the item is too expensive for our budget, we’ll help the child by offering extra chores and matching what they save. After all, we adults can’t get everything we want. We are constrained by a budget and must work extra hard to get those things we want that are out of our budget. This is a good lesson for kids to learn, too.

Read More

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Filed Under: Holidays & Vacations Tagged With: Christmas Gift, expensive gift, gift giving

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