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You Are Not Losing Money In Your 401(k)!

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I was watching my local news when they did a spot on people who were vacationing a little closer to home this holiday season because of the economy or other reasons when one of the people who they interviewed blamed their need for staying closer to having lost money in her 401(k).  Besides the fact that that money is, for all intents and purposes, off limits until you retire, and really has no effect on your current financial standing, how do you lose money in your 401(k)?

Did it get misplaced?

I’m being a bit facetious here to prove a point.  To lose money implies that the money is no longer yours.  Except that the majority of your “money” in a 401(k) isn’t actually money.  It’s shares of companies or mutual funds or index funds or ETFs.  You aren’t losing money.  You’re losing value.  The securities that you purchased with your money are not as valuable as they were when you bought them.  You still own the same amount of securities, which you converted your money to, so you still have all of your money.  It’s the value that you’ve lost.

Better example.  You buy a car for $10,000.  After driving the car for 5 years, you sell it for $5000.  Did you lose $5000 on the car?  Not really.  Very few people will think of it that way.  Because most people do not assume that they will gain value in a car, so they accept that they will not be able to sell the car for the same amount they bought it for.  And it is almost guaranteed that it won’t gain any value.  Again, though, you lost value, not money.

Losing value isn’t as bad as losing money. Why? Because, unless you need to realize that value immediately, you have time to wait and see if the value does go up.  And with securities, chances are that they will.  And in a locked up instrument like a 401(k) with all it’s penalties to discourage realizing that value until retirement, many of us have decades to wait and see how things turn out.  And, if I were a betting man (which I am sometimes), I would put pretty good odds on my 401(K) gaining value between now and when I need to withdraw any of it.

Note: I don’t encourage waiting to see if the value of your car will go up.  Unless you plan on waiting decades for that also in hopes that it will become a classic collectable.

Being Debt Responsible

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What does being “debt responsible” mean, and how do you do it?

Being debt responsible means taking responsibility for your debt and it’s payoff without making excuses or trying to find easy ways out through debt write-off, negotiation with creditors, or bankruptcy.  In a nutshell, if you signed on the dotted line, you must pay it off.

Why must you be debt responsible?  The most commonly referenced reason that you must be debt responsible is that, by signing the note, you were guaranteeing that the debt would be paid.  You also accepted the conditions of repayment.  Some of those conditions, such as interest rate, are somewhat negotiable even after you sign the note, but not the amount of the actual debt.  The most important reason for being debt responsible (to me at least), is the moral requirement.  Morally, whether you look at it religiously or secularly, you have a responsibility to repay the debt.   Again, it goes back to your acceptance of the debt and it’s conditions.  Morally, you have a responsibility to uphold your part of the bargain.

Luckily, for most of us, it’s extremely easy to be debt responsible.  We just have to pay our bills each month.  But what happens when an emergency strikes and you can no longer pay your bills?  That depends.  Can you really not pay your bills, or can you not pay your bills because you have to go out to Red Lobster next Thursday?  If you really, truly cannot pay your bills, you have what is one of the only exceptions to any of the above rules.  You are free to negotiate as much as possible to reduce your payments, delay your payments, and even reduce or eliminate your interest payments.  Only in the most extreme cases should you try and reduce the debt or eliminate the debt.

Being debt responsible isn’t always fun.  (Who am I trying to kid?  It’s never fun.)  But, it’s the right thing to do, not just morally, but for your personal finance as well.

That Your Daddy’s Car?

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I want to share a story with you about work. About working for what you want, so that you can not only get what you want, but pay for it with cash.
My roommate in college (one of many) graduated college with no college loans. Not because he had scholarships, but because he paid for it with cash. Not only that, but he had a nice pickup and an even nicer classic car. It was a very nice drop-top convertible with a deep burgundy metal flake paint job. Every summer, he did a little bit of work on it until it was painstakingly nice.
68mustangblue_smallOne day, while we were out and about enjoying the sun with the top down, we happened to stop somewhere. It’s been a while ago, so I don’t exactly remember where. While we were there, some older guys (I’m guessing 40-50ish) came over to look at the car.
After asking the normal courtesy questions, like what kind of motor was in it and if the seats were original, one of the guys asked the wrong question.  “That your Daddy’s Car?”

My roommate isn’t exactly a shy person, but even he will admit that, at first, he was taken aback by the question. Despite our age (21ish), he had worked hard to put that car in the condition that it was in.  It was his car.  Not his daddy’s, his.  After he regained his senses, he made sure that the man who asked the question knew that it was his car. That he had done the work and he had paid for it.  The guy laughed his question off like it was a joke, although it was obvious that he hadn’t meant it jokingly.

Like most stories, this one has a moral at the end.  Or, at least, I’m giving it one.  Giving us all something to learn from it.  No matter how hard you work for something, there will always be that guy who will assume that you got it handed to you.  Nice car?  Must be your daddy’s.  Nice house?  Inheritance.  Or more loan that it’s worth.  Or you make a lot of money.  Or.  Or. Or.  The point is, they will find a way to assume that you got whatever it is by some other method than actual hard work.  And, like my roommate, you might feel that you need to set them straight.  Whether you do or not, is irrelevant.  What you need to take from this story is that when you set those goals, and you work hard to reach them, you must expect that there will be few people who will believe that you got it by working for it.  Some, you will be able to set straight.  Others will continue to think it no matter how many times you tell them.  Being disciplined and hard working requires a thicker skin.  You’ve got to be able to ignore the people who won’t believe.  They believe that anyone who has nice things got it the same way the majority of other people do.  Credit.  But you know better.  You got your things the Beating Broke Way!

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