As we age, we become more dependent on others to help us, and with time, this progresses to the point that consistent aid is required. If you have elderly parents, you may have noticed signs that show they may require more help and might not be able to continue the same lifestyle as they did before. Read on to learn more about the signs it’s time to start looking for a nursing home.
1. Your Parent Anxiously and Increasingly Calls You at Night
People with dementia tend to become confused, agitated, and anxious. With time, as the condition progresses, so too does their behavior. If you have consistently received calls at night from a worried or anxious mum or dad living on their own, then you know something is making them feel insecure. Your parent may be acting erratically because of dementia. It’s said that over one-fifth of U.S. nursing home residents have prescriptions for antipsychotic medications. People with dementia will eventually need constant minding and care.
2. They Have Suffered a Fall
A bad fall for an elderly person can bring about a dramatic change in their lifestyle. They may have been fully independent and could still drive their car to the shops and buy groceries. Falls can cause breaks and fractures and can lead to disability which is an even higher risk in a senior individual.
Statistics per the Centers for disease control (CDC) suggested that almost 132 million patients occupy emergency rooms in the United States annually, with around 30% of those incidents relating to injuries. After a severe injury and immobility suffered by a senior, it is most likely they will need 24/7 care at a nursing facility
3. The Home Is Not the Cleanest and Best Place to Live
You may notice that the home has become extremely run down. You may see filthy and stacked up dishes, spoilt food in the refrigerator and cabinets, a dilapidated garden makes up the outdoors, and the place is clearly not fit to live in under these conditions. Your senior parent may need a lifestyle change, and getting assistance from a nursing home can be of great benefit. If they have reached the point where taking care of themselves and doing simple chores has become too difficult, then they may need help.
4. They Struggle To Remember To Take Medication
As seniors’ memory slowly fades, they can struggle to remember important things like taking their medication. Some people are on serious medications that, when missed, can cause other health concerns. They may need live-in assistance or a nursing home to help with this and other things
According to Finance Buzz, 50% of people have emergency kits in their homes. Despite this large number, around 23% of those people think their emergency kit may be lacking essential items. Keeping an emergency kit in your home if your senior parent is living with you is handy to have. You may also have an emergency kit in your parent’s home and a panic button to call for help should something happen to them.
Does your elderly parent show any of these signs? You can have them examined at a doctor’s practice also to check whether they are capable of being on their own or if it is time to change their lifestyle. You may not put your parents in a nursing home right away. Instead, you can have them move in with you. Still, with time, having to look after a senior parent with dementia, mobility concerns, or other difficulties can put immense pressure on the child who is caring for them and could also strain the relationship.
There are also many alternatives, like in-home assistance, independent living communities with on-site medical staff and doctors, assisted living communities, and Hospice care to name a few.