Beating Broke

Personal Finance from the Broke Perspective

Taking Financial Ownership

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I was reading a story somewhere where a person was being interviewed about their debt.  In the interview, the person was speaking about how they had this credit card debt and how they just couldn’t get out from under it because of all the interest, fees, and other ways that the credit card company throws on the heap each month.  They went on to talk about how they were in fear of having their car and house repossessed because they were falling behind.  With each new problem, they were quick to point out the things that were keeping them back and causing their slide into bankruptcy.

Something occurred to me, then.  They were taking no ownership in their finances.  No matter what the financial woe was, it was always someone elses fault.  The credit card companies were tacking on interest and fees.  The bank was adding late charges onto their car loan and mortgages.  Not once did they take any ownership of their situation.  Not once did they say, “we shouldn’t have charged so much on the credit cards”, or “we bought more house than we could afford”. The blame was always on the other guy.

Saving is for wimps! I have a plan for affordable housing.If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my journey towards beating broke, it’s that it’s all my fault.  I signed that credit slip.  I signed that mortgage.  I signed the loan papers.  Yes, some of the credit card companies have interest rates and policies that border on predatory.  Yes, the banks will allow you to borrow right up to a point where you’re living paycheck to paycheck.  But, I signed on the dotted line.  Along the way, I discovered all of that, and I took financial ownership.  And, in doing so, I took control.

Through financial ownership, I have control over where my money goes.  I have control over which debt gets paid off first.  I have control of how tightly the purse-strings are held.  And, most importantly, I have control of my financial future.  A future that I plan to make as financially independent as possible.  Not at the whim and mercy of any bank, but a future where I can plan to buy things, and save money towards retirement.

My journey isn’t over, but I am beating broke.  I’m taking financial ownership and making my future one that is free from broke.

I want you be able to say the same thing.  It’s one of my goals for this site to help you beat broke.  Beating broke is the first step in your financial journey towards a life free from concerns over where next months bills are coming from.  You can do it.  But, you’ve got to take financial ownership.  You got yourself in the situation you’re in, and only you can get yourself out.  Do it today.  Accept that you are the only one that can take ownership of your financial situation, and you are the only one with the power to fix it.  Take that step.

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Stop Adding Up the Cost of Children!

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Playtime under the sun...
Every few weeks, you see an article that goes into great detail on the costs of having children.  In these articles, they talk about how much it costs to have a child at the hospital, to buy diapers, formula, clothes, and even talk about future costs like sports, cars, and college.  But, if there’s one thing that being a father has taught me, it’s to stop adding up the cost of children.  Seriously.  Here’s why.

If you are one of those people who truly wants to have children, it won’t matter what they cost.  You’ll want them.  And, you’ll gladly find a way to pay the cost.  Sure, it might be nice to know some rough estimates so that you can prepare a little.  That’s mostly sane.  But, some people are actually using those cost estimates as a justification for not having children.  They go on to claim that it’s just not the responsible thing to do (having children) if you can’t afford them.  But, here’s the thing.  Almost every single one of them can afford children.  It will mean changing their lifestyle, sure, but they will be able to afford a child.  The folks who truly cannot afford children, aren’t off in the corner with calculators, running the numbers.  It won’t ever occur to them that they can’t afford children.  They’ll do just what you should do, if you want children.  Have them.

No doubt, it’s scary.  The numbers run from the low 5 digits to the low 7 digits over a childs lifetime.  And, don’t even begin to total up the added “cost” of the time spent at t-ball games, birthday parties, and other childrens events. (Shhh! Don’t tell anyone, but most of those are really good excuses to have a bit of fun yourself.) And it’s absolute torture to try and figure out and estimate what college will cost in 18 years.  But, that’s the root of my advice to you.  Just don’t.  Don’t add up the costs.  The truth of it is that it just doesn’t matter.

Children are an incredible blessing.  The experience is invaluable and without a price tag.  It’s not for everyone.  But, if you want to have children, just do it.  You’ll be glad you did, regardless of cost.

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Opportunity Cost is Bull

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That’s right.  Bull.  All these experts go on and on about calculating the opportunity cost of something and adding that in to your cost analysis when deciding whether you should do something yourself, or hire it out.  Heck, even I have used it before.  But, we’ve all taken it way too far.

Let me ask you this; What is your opportunity cost of reading this post?  Of eating your breakfast this morning?  Not relevant?  Bull, again.  We use it to determine if we should keep cable T.V.  We use it to determine the added cost of our daily commute.  Personally, I’ve used it to validate paying people to do all sorts of things.  Mechanics?  The cost of doing it myself is too great, let them replace those brakes!  Plumbers? I hate doing plumbing.  Let them fix that leak!  We’ve become so obsessed with being frugal and pinching our pennies that we figure out the cost of everything that we do.  If the cost is too high, we should avoid doing it, or do it ourselves, our mantra goes.  But, that isn’t always true! Sometimes, it’s just straight up bull.

We all want to improve our finances.  That’s why we do those calculations.  It’s simple mathematics.  The problem with opportunity cost, however, is that most people assume a 100% efficiency.  I hate to be the one to break it to you, but there is nothing that is 100% efficient.  Not you, me, or anything ever created.  There’s gonna be some loss.  So, yes, I can figure the opportunity cost of my time.  But, it depends on my using that time to be efficiently working on something that will make me money.  The opportunity cost of my time at work is about $25/hour.  But, that doesn’t mean that every hour I sit at home watching T.V. has an opportunity cost of $25/hour.  I can’t stop watching T.V. and replace that time with paid time for work.  They don’t like paying overtime.  Plus, I’m paid on salary, so every extra hour I work at work, reduces the effective hourly pay.  Did you catch that?  Every hour over 40 hours a week that I work reduces my efficiency to earn money.  If I were paid hourly, that might be slightly different.  But, I’d be willing to bet, my employer would still have an aversion to paying overtime and would not allow me to work many more hours over 40.

If you’ve got side projects, like I do, there is a opportunity cost for every hour that I’m not working on them.  Some side projects are extremely easy to figure the cost of.  If I contract out my work on an hourly basis, my cost (for every hour I’m not working that project) is that hourly rate.  But, just like my job, I can’t be 100% efficient at my side project either.  I’ve got to sleep sometime.  (Egads!!!  The opportunity cost of sleep!!!)

The point is this; If you’re going to try and figure the opportunity cost in order to validate a decision, don’t do it blindly.  Realize that you won’t be 100% efficient.  Just because you disconnect the cable T.V. doesn’t mean you’re going to replace all that T.V. watching time with efficient money making time.  Some of it might be spent reading a book.  Or playing with kids.  Or napping. 😉  Each of those may have some benefit to you, but they really don’t have much place in a financial cost analysis.  Sorry, you can’t bill your kids for playtime!

The personal finance world is full of stuff like this.  Mantras and rules-of-thumb that we use like crutches to validate and justify why we do what we do.  It’s like an addiction.  If you truly want to take control of your finances and live a better life, you’ve got to discard those addictions like you would a pack of smokes and begin to analyze what you do with a critical view.  Nothing is worth using in your finances until you’ve tested and proven that it is.

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